So it breaks down like this…umm, at this point in time we have been living together for a little less than three months and been together for about three and a half months. We are currently on one of our planned summer vacations in Depoe Bay, at the Harbor Lights Inn, laying on the floor of our room, wine in one hand 7 & 7 in the other, fire lit, amazing bay view, music playing, and completely enjoying the moment. We feel it necessary to explain how this all started. Many close friends know this story already but we need to get this down on record for the sake of future arguments surrounding the details. Hehehe.
Stephanie was planning on moving to Florida at the beginning of June. She had discussed this with her boss, set the date for leaving, and planned a road trip with her Dad to help her move out to Florida. At this point in time she was under the assumption that her Dad had already booked his returning flight. It was obvious that the bucket list Stephanie and Splat were creating was not going to be completed by the time she left. One of the biggest things on the bucket list was Stephanie going to the Oregon Country Fair and camping out for the first time inside. Splat is the co-coordinator of the Health and Healing booth in Community Village and shares the loft space above the booth with an elder, Gloria. He had mentioned the possibility of getting an SO (Significant Other) pass. Stephanie was already planning on coming back to Portland in August for her friend Lori and Zach’s wedding, for which she is the maid of honor for. There was brief discussion of the possibility of her coming back for the Oregon Country Fair as well.
This is where shit gets cray cray. Twelve days into their inseparable love affair Splat decided to look online for airfare to have Stephanie come back to Oregon from Florida for the fair. He texts her the information, in which she replies I really cannot afford that. This is when breaking a sweat and working out plays a positive role in your core. Splats brain is working overtime on how amazing this woman is in his life and how he would love to spend way more time with her. I must warn you, the following information is true factual texts. Although it is long it is real emotional and true. For those who care to live the life that dreams are made of, here is how real magic happens. “Heaven is here on Earth”. So here is how the texts break down:
MONDAY:
Splat: So I was thinking about you & your moving situation, & I am going to say from a strictly financial position, it doesn’t make sense for you to go to Florida until after you friend’s wedding in August. I mean just think about how much you would save on flights. Of course this is realization has nothing to do with the fact that I would love to take you to see Ray LeMontangue in June, Fair & rogue river rafting trip in July as well as a coastal stay, aquarium, camping & zip line experience. It should also have nothing to do with the fact that I have an extra room at my house right now for cheap to no rent with a couple of amazing guy roommates. I was just thinking of it from a financial perspective. It also has nothing to do with the fact that I am crazy about you. Just thought I would share how crazy I am.
Stephanie: Haha u are crazy! J I was actually thinking today along the same lines of staying till after the wedding but my dad booked his flight from FL back to Eugene already…I’m pretty sure he would kill me if I tried changing plans now. Ugh…it’s so tempting though, I would have an amazing summer. :)
Splat: I am truly not trying to throw any wrenches in your plan. I am pretty sure that airline tickets can be transferred to another date. Possibly for a small fee. You just came into $50 bucks you weren’t expecting on a bet that you could contribute for him. Sorry just thinking out loud again. I will stand by whatever decision you make. Oh yes & it would be a summer of love.
Stephanie: I’ll keep it in mind, I have some time to think about it.
Stephanie kept it in mind. She did more than that, she started making new plans. It turned out that Stephanie’s Dad had not booked his ticket.
TUESDAY:
Next night. Stephanie picked Splat up from work, and on the drive home, Stephanie asked, “Were you serious about the text you wrote me?” Splat said, “Absolutely”. We both looked at each other and understood this was fucking crazy. Once home, we sat on the front porch, bottles of wine, packs of cigarettes, we discussed the deets. “I want to be exclusive. I don’t want you bringing girls home or me bringing guys home.” Splat agreed. Exclusive.
“This is fucking crazy.” Absolute laughter from both sides. It was agreed, yet…Free needed to second it….
WEDNESDAY:
Stephanie: I’m going to talk to my boss about the possibility of extending my time…
Splat: Good luck.
Stephanie: You sure you want to do this…
Splat: It is extremely fucking crazy. But I’m willing to give you a summer of this lifetime for a great adventure with an am amazing partner.
Stephanie: Deal, I’m taking a huge leap of faith here. I’m also having lunch with my Mom and also letting her know the plan. I’m not saying anything is definite until you talk to Free.
Splat: Deal.
Stephanie: My boss said its just fine, last day is June 30th. I really hope Free will be ok with it.
Splat: I will talk to him on Thursday. I just got to work, have a good day and I will talk to you later.
THURSDAY:
Splat: Just talked to Free. When I asked if it’s okay for you to move in he got a little sad and upset. I’m really not sure about all of this anymore.
Stephanie: Really? Did he say why?
Splat: I realize that there are certain days in the year that have great meaning and purpose. Being that we only met a few weeks ago, I was never given the opportunity to play a really good April Fools joke. That was it.
Splat: He actually smiled really big and said sure I really like her. Then he asked if you were really going to be our roommate, or if it would be more like Joey who was never there. When I told him you would be around a lot and stay every night he said, “Yeah, that means I can help her with her tap zoo all the time.” We are going to have an epic adventure this summer. Everything is a go.
Stephanie: OMG, my heart dropped! So not funny!
Splat: Gotcha.
Stephanie: I’m really really happy right now even though you are so not funny!
Splat: :)
Stephanie: Sent you the start of my bucket list….